TUESDAY’S TIP: THE COLORS OF LOVE

This week I want to stretch your imagination about love and how it can be expressed. There are many COLORS and shades of showing LOVE and being authentic is the foundation for success. Let me share a secret with you and it will expand your understanding of loving someone. Take time to learn their primary…

TUESDAY’S TIP: LOVE THY SELF

This blog maybe one of the most important that I write all year. To truly experience a happy, and healthy relationship or marriage, it starts with the person in the mirror. You can’t share love if you don’t know love. You must 1st LOVE THY SELF. Many people may think this topic is about indulging…

TUESDAY’S TIP: WRAPPED UP IN MY OWN WORLD

As I pondered over this topic, WRAPPED UP IN MY OWN WORLD, the image being displayed was perfect. The lady’s head and face are wrapped in seaweed, but focus on another area…the eyes. If you’re WRAPPED UP IN YOUR OWN WORLD, your vision is singular. Take note, the ears are covered, and some form of…

TUESDAY’S TIP: CONTINUE TO BREATHE

I heard the title “CONTINUE TO BREATHE” in a song recently, and the lyrics are speaking to the value of African-American males lives. For this post, I want to relate it to relationships. In the midst of a struggling relationship or marriage, when everything looks dark and gloomy, you must CONTINUE TO BREATHE. I’m not…

TUESDAY’S TIP: FRESH START 

The dawn of a New Year is upon us and beginning a FRESH START could be the very thing we need in our relationships and marriages. This is the best time to rejuvenate, re-energize, and renew your most valuable asset, which are the people you love. One of the meanings to the word FRESH is…

TUESDAY’S TIP: GET HELP

This week, I would like to tackle a really hard issue that still continues to be taboo in many of our communities. We were created to be connected to each other via relationships. Unfortunately, many of us did not have the privilege of witnessing healthy, loving relationships and marriages growing up; and therefore, now as…

TUESDAY’S TIP: REFLECTION

Let’s do a pulse check this week by discussing an interesting topic, REFLECTION. I know you’re thinking what does this have to do with my relationship or marriage. Au contraire my friend, it has much to do with it and people will know if your mate’s love language is being filled or not. Life is…

TUESDAY’S TIP: THANKSGIVING 

In the spirit of the holiday season, I want to put a spin on the meaning of THANKSGIVING. Normally we think about gathering around the family table, eating great food, telling stories and creating new memories. This week let’s discuss GIVING THANKS for that special person in your life. Relationships and marriages experience different seasons,…

TUESDAY’S TIP: I’M NOT THE ENEMY 

Let’s discuss a topic that I’ve not only observed in my family and friends relationships, but I’ve personally experienced it too. Individuals get into relationships for a myriad of reasons, but when a person only gives a portion of him or herself, completing the act of building a solid foundation is nearly impossible. In sports,…

TUESDAY’S TIP: POUR LOVE

Last week we talked about refreshing your relationship or marriage, so today I want to follow up with tangible actions. There are many ways to display and show your love so you can yield great results. This week I want to share ways to spice things up, which is to POUR LOVE into their hearts….

TUESDAY’S TIP: REFRESH

This week’s topic is one of the most important tips because we’re approaching the holidays. These are prescious times in our lives where moments become memories. Taking the time to REFRESH with family and friends is good for the soul. One of the meanings of REFRESH is to give new strength or energy to. The…

TUESDAY’S TIP: LOVE & FAITH

It was about 5:00 am one morning and I woke up to use the restroom. As I laid back down, I had an epiphany about being in LOVE AND FAITH. We read a lot of books about LOVE, see many movies and television shows and experience different levels of LOVE, but the missing element of…