TUESDAY’S TIP: P.S.E. VS E.S.P.

I know you’re thinking what do these acronyms mean. I will tell you about them, but they refer to characteristics of both men and women. In order for us to relate better , we must understand each other. After a recent conversation with some of my colleagues, we discovered that men are PHYSICAL, SPIRITUAL, and…

TUESDAY’S TIP: DON’T KEEP SCORE

We are in the midst of some of the greatest sports times of the year and KEEPING SCORE is a focal point. In terms of your relationships, KEEPING SCORE should be the furthest thing from your heart. When you think about sharing your life with someone, coming to terms with the good and bad is…

TUESDAY’S TIP: 5 LANGUAGES OF AN APOLOGY

This week we want to discuss ways to make it right even when you feel justified in your stance. Sometimes it can be hard to humble yourself and APOLOGIZE to a love one. A genuine APOLOGY will cause those involved to think, ponder and realize what’s important about the relationship. If you’re the person who…

TUESDAY’S TIP: NAVIGATING POLITICAL VIEWS

On the aftermath of the recent Presidential debate, politics and love can be a sensitive topic to NAVIGATE.  With the country already in a divided state, it can be tricky when a couple has opposite POLITICAL VIEWS. Like any other issue, in a relationship, the goal is to listen, verbalize what you’ve heard, and display…

TUESDAY’S TIP: DATING 101¬†

Last week, we talked about telling that special person Why You Love Them. Well now, I want to share ways on how to keep them. One of the secrets to long-term success in your marriage is to continue DATING. Take a journey down memory lane and remember how going out on a DATE was fun…

TUESDAY’S TIP: WHAT’S LOVE GOT TO DO WITH IT??

When you think of this title, if you know anything about music, Tina Turner would come to mind. She knew something because when it comes to establishing and maintaining long-term relationships, LOVE has a lot TO DO WITH IT. Over the years, I’ve seen people get into relationships or marriages for a myriad of reasons;…

TUESDAY’S TIP: I DE-CLARE WAR

Yes I said it, WAR, and I DE-CLARE it with high intensity. I know this may sound strange for a blog dedicated to relationships and marriages, but I believe it’s perfect. When it comes to fighting and believing in your relationship or marriage, do you have the fortitude? There will be attacks dealing with trust,…

TUESDAY’S TIP: HAPPY MARRIAGE: MISSION POSSIBLE¬†

If you’re a fan of Tom Cruise, the title of this week’s tip is slightly different but just as effective. In MISSION IMPOSSIBLE, Cruise along with his team, against all odds, always accomplished their MISSION. In the series, the team has been assigned a difficult task to accomplish, and without coming together and using all…

TUESDAY’S TIP: WHY I LOVE YOU

Have you ever taken an inventory of WHY YOU LOVE, that special person? Oh my, this can take us down a journey that will spark new emotions, discoveries and things to learn. Although I’m using it as a tip, it’s a question that can be answered in your private time, while looking in their eyes,…

TUESDAY’S TIP: DEDICATION¬†

As I’m watching the athletes push their bodies to the max and how DEDICATED they are to their craft, I was inspired to write about this topic. How much DEDICATION do we have towards our relationship/marriage? DEDICATION means to be committed to a task or purpose. The word that jumped out to need purpose. When…

TUESDAY’S TIP: LEARN OF ME

This week I want to speak to you about LEARNING something new about your mate.  People grow and evolve over time and we may think that we know everything about them, but it’s simply not the case. This can be a fun discovery because it gives you a chance to learn and grow yourself. No…

TUESDAY’S TIP: CAN YOU SEE CLEARLY????

Normally when we speak on the subject of sight, we automatically thinks about our eyes. Well in this post, I want to discuss SEEING CLEARLY with the inner eyes, your heart. The heart can be the most vulnerable part of a person when it comes to loving someone. What I share today will be a…